As of Nov 2013, we have 2 options - Eclipse MAT and a hidden gem called Bheapsampler.
Option 1:
Eclipse Memory Analyzer is obviously the best tool for this job. However, trying to get the UI to run remotely is very painful. Launching Eclipse and updating the UI is an extra load on the JVM that is already busy analyzing a 30G heap dump. Fortunately, there is a script that comes with MAT to parse the the heap dump and generate HTML reports without ever having to launch Eclipse! It's just that the command line option is not well advertised.
Command line heap analysis using Eclipse MAT:
Assuming Eclipse MAT is installed and we are inside the mat/ directory, modify MemoryAnalyzer.ini heap settings to use a large heap to handle large dumps:
-startup
plugins/org.eclipse.equinox.
--launcher.library
plugins/org.eclipse.equinox.launcher.gtk.linux.x86_64_1.1.
-vmargs
-Xms24g
-Xmx24g
Run MAT against the heap dump:
./ParseHeapDump.sh ../today_heap_dump/jvm.hprof
This takes a while to execute and generates indices and other files to make repeated analysis faster. Then use the indices created in the previous step and run a "Leak suspects" report on the heap dump.
./ParseHeapDump.sh ../today_heap_dump/jvm.hprof org.eclipse.mat.api:suspects
The output is a small and easy to download jvm_Leak_Suspects.zip. This has HTML files just like the MAT Eclipse UI. It can be easily SCP'ed/emailed around.
Other report types possible.
org.eclipse.mat.api:suspects
org.eclipse.mat.api:overview
org.eclipse.mat.api:top_
More details - http://wiki.eclipse.org/index.php/MemoryAnalyzer/FAQ.
Option 2:
http://dr-brenschede.de/bheapsampler is something I chanced upon. It is a sampling heap dump reader and so it works for very large heap dumps where MAT sometimes fails. Being a sampling reader, the output is also a little imprecise but helps a great deal when you have nothing else. The tool seems to be closed source and is very sensitive to heap dump corruptions.
As an aside, here's something that might be useful for the initial heap dump quickly - https://blogs.atlassian.com/2013/03/so-you-want-your-jvms-heap/.